As wedding photographers, we hear the same questions at almost every wedding: I don’t know what to do with my hands?! Talladega Nights reference or not, this is honestly a good question. Managing your hands on your wedding day may seem like a small detail, but it can make a big difference in your overall comfort and appearance in photos. Here's a comprehensive guide on what to do with your hands on your wedding day.

For the Bride:

Engagement Ring and Wedding Band: Before the ceremony, ensure your engagement ring is on your right hand, and your wedding band is on your left. During the ceremony, your partner will place the wedding band on your left hand, closest to your heart.
Bouquet: Holding a bouquet is a classic choice. Hold it slightly below your waist and close to your body for a natural and elegant look. Remember to relax your hands and keep a soft grip.
Hands Together: Clasp your hands together in front or behind you. This creates a timeless and graceful look. Experiment with the position of your hands to find what feels most comfortable.
Hands on Hips: Place your hands on your hips for a confident and chic pose. This can be especially great for fun and candid photos.
Groom’s Arm: While walking down the aisle or posing for photos, consider linking arms with your partner. This not only looks romantic but also helps both of you feel more connected.

Pockets: If your dress has pockets, use them casually. Just make sure it doesn't create any awkward bulges or distort the shape of your gown.
Gentle Gestures: Lightly touch your partner’s arm or hold hands. These subtle gestures can convey your connection and love.
Relax: Keep in mind that a relaxed posture is key. Overthinking your hand position may create tension. Allow yourself to be in the moment and enjoy the celebration.

For the Groom:

Hands in Pockets: Like the bride, if your suit has pockets, you can use them. However, avoid sticking your hands too deep as it can look awkward.
Crossed Arms: For a more casual and confident look, cross your arms. This can be especially effective for candid shots.
Ring Focus: Show off your wedding ring by placing your hands in a way that draws attention to it. For example, resting one hand on the other with the ring visible can create a meaningful pose.
Holding Jacket Lapel: If you're wearing a jacket, lightly hold the lapel. This classic pose exudes sophistication.
Holding a Prop: Consider holding a prop like your sunglasses, a pocket square, or your tie. This can add a personal touch and give you something to do with your hands.
Gesture Towards Bride: Use your hands to gently gesture towards your bride. This can be a beautiful way to express your connection.
Natural Movements: Allow your hands to move naturally during moments like your vows or speeches. Avoid rigid poses and let your emotions guide your movements.

Remember, the most important thing is to feel comfortable and authentic. Practice different poses before the big day to find what feels most natural for you. Additionally, communicate with your photographer to ensure they capture the moments you want. 😉 Enjoy every moment of your wedding day!

- James